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71 – Crawley, West Sussex, England

I'm a fairly normal happy person, very busy but looking for someone to spend my spare time with.

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Online: 30 April 2024

Modified: 25 February 2024

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In Her Own Words

About her

I'm generally a happy person and my friends and family say they like spending time with me.
I don't let much get me down.
I love animals particularly horses and dogs.
I love eating out, going to the cinema and the theatre.
Love music of all types, although country and western and jazz are not in my top ten.
A few years ago I turned my hobby into a business and it's doing pretty well. It does mean I'm not retired. But for the right person, I can take a day off.
I have been single by choice for over 12 years, and I think I may be ready to meet someone who will save me from spending my autumn years alone.
I live with my very active Dad, who is about to turn 96. We have a super relationship and usually carry out DIY projects together.
If I meet someone, I wouldn't want it to change my present situation too much.
I'm happy to meet and go on a date, but I don't want to move away from home for a while. But obviously my circumstances will change one day, but not too soon, I hope.
I do drive but at present I have to be ferried around as I am waiting for spinal surgery.
That doesn't stop me working or socialising as long as I can hitch a lift.
So a nice long walk in the country side or along a seaside prom is out of the question.
Are you still interested in this rickety girl ?

About her ideal match

I am looking for a happy, strong, honest, loyal person, who can make me laugh.
I believe there should be give and take in all relationships and trust is very important.
He should be happy with who he is and not afraid to air his feelings.
I would hope he likes good food, good films and good company.
If he has a 'problem' with alcohol or drugs.....that would be a No No

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Crawley, West Sussex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
71
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Changes Often
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Secondary
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Agnostic

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district RH11 (Crawley)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
55 - 74
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky
Looks:
Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Executive / Management; Labour / Construction; Retired; Self-employed; Agriculture; Consultancy / Design
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Opportunity
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Cautious; Faithful; Happy; Independent; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite colour:
Pink
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Country Pursuits:
Bee-keeping; Falconry; Growing vegetables; Keeping chickens; Making preserves; Visiting country / agricultural shows
Date activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; History; Non-fiction; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; Shopping
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Sports:
Horse Riding
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream home:
In the country
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Feelings about using Country Loving:
Nervous; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Very