In Her Own Words
About her
Hi, incredibly shy and socially awkward...at first, lol. Absolutely rubbish at dating or even allowing people to get close...at first!
The usual story of choosing to let the wrong people in my life which has left me "terrified" to make the same mistakes again. Wow, I'm actually being brutally honest with myself here 🤔
I'm accident prone, struggle in social situations but still try and enjoy going out to the pub now and then. I often don't realise when people are being "bitchy" or sarcastic until the moments passed because I've always been a bit of a people pleaser. Unfortunately it's been one of my worst character flaws because I'm seen as weak or stupid, I really don't think I am stupid, just too trusting and it ended up becoming the opposite with me not really trusting anyone or my own judgement.
I've now been single for a few years and feel so much happier in myself, my 2 boys aged 26 and 17 are living at home with me, although they just tend to grunt at me from time to time and as long as they are fed with clean laundry we rub along together just fine 😊
I "love" all things country and nature, I live close enough to the Gower to allow me to visit whenever I want but since the boys are so much older I don't go much, I can sometimes tempt my youngest for a walk on our favourite beaches. I have 2 gorgeous horses, I lost my beautiful ridden mare just after Christmas and only just getting used to her not being here after owning her for 17yrs.
I haven't travelled much and will do this in future, I have my own home and car, the "cliche" 3 cats of which 1 is old now but as they are Siamese she doesn't know it. I'll add a recent pic and more later.
I'm trying to get back to some sort of fitness to break in the 2 horses I have and start enjoying them again and I just might buy myself a bike!
I am excited about the future and have the time to do the things I want so I'm just starting my adventures 😉 doubled my pics, delete not responding (accident prone 🙄)
About her ideal match
My match would be someone who enjoys the country and the coast, doesn't mind wellies and mud and can either cook or likes take out or ready meals lol, (not a great cook but again, I try)
I'm being brutally honest as I don't understand why anyone would want to lie and waste each others time.
I want adventures with someone who wants that too, and if I sound too active I'm definitely not, and although I am up for fun out and about I also miss a cwtch on the sofa watching a good movie. I want to hold long conversations about stuff and nothing and laugh at silly things together. I'm obviously obsessed with horses and Pure bred Arabian horses especially. I'm hoping any man I meet can at least tolerate the horsey life even if they are not into horses and being handy at mending a fence or two would be a bonus lol. If none of the above apply it doesn't mean we won't get on so if you want pop a chat on and see if we click x
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Swansea, Swansea, Wales | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Childish |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Loyal |
Valued qualities: |
Honesty |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Heavy Metal; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Soap operas |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Horror; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Gardening; Music; Photography |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Horse Riding; Pool; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Honesty: |
Extremely |