In Her Own Words
About her
My life is great, but there’s a bit of a hole which is why I’m hoping to find someone special. I’m happy, warm hearted, and easy going, I like a bit of spontaneity and am excited about the future.
I live in the countryside and enjoy long dog walks, cosy pubs, messing about on the river and mountain (obviously no mountains in Oxfordshire). I used to live in London and enjoy going back for everything it has to offer. A bit of a foodie, I love cooking for friends as well as dining out. My interests include the outdoors, hiking, art, pottery, gardening, the theatre etc. I enjoy Pilates and go to the gym regularly (although not obsessed). I lived abroad a long time ago, which planted the seed of wanting to see more of the world - I love travelling and hope you do too, particularly holidays which include a good mix of culture, great scenery, mountains or sandy beaches and going off the beaten track a little.
I am divorced with children who are young adults and less in the ‘nest’ than ever - one is at uni, and the other one will be off soon. I now have time and space to dedicate to a new relationship and would love to build life memories with a partner.
I think I’m grounded but life is one exciting journey and I’m passionate about making the most of things and I’m not one to sit around all day - hopefully you’ll be similar. I love discovering new places, trying something new and catching up with friends dotted around all over the place. Saying that, there’s nothing better than having a glass of wine with a partner next to the fire in winter, or a lazy picnic together in the shade of tree on a riverbank in Summer.
About her ideal match
I am hoping to meet a wonderful man for what will hopefully blossom into a magical long term relationship. You’ll have a zest for life as well as appreciating the little things. Someone who enjoys conversation, is funny, romantic and loving.
If we have some shared interests that would be great, but if you’re open to trying something new, or letting me have a go at something you enjoy, then that would also be great. Very importantly you should be open hearted, kind, loving and honest with strong family values. If any of what I’ve written, I’d love to hear from you.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford (Oxfordshire), Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Spanish | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district SN7 (Faringdon) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
52 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Pottery; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Badminton; Chess; Hiking; Horse Riding; Skiing; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Country Loving: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |