In Her Own Words
About her
The last few years have been all about working hard to set up a joyous and mindful life, focusing on healthy choices, a natural lifestyle, deep connections with my treasured family, friends and community, as well as developing a proper understanding of myself. Im so grateful for this amazing life, and I'd love a soulmate to share it with.
I'm looking for a loving relationship with a man who has similar freedom, where we share a similar moral compass, agreeing on the things that matter while respecting and learning from each other’s opinions that can help us grow. And have fun doing it! A monogamous relationship where we each take time out to attend to our personal commitments and passions would also work.
I'm a dynamic creator but also a deep thinker, adventurous and social but need regular quiet time. I value experiences over possessions, prefer living simply in nature, have recently discovered the joy of raising my own veggies and eating sunwarmed oranges straight off my trees, but still love the occasional party.
Sportwise, I really enjoy cycling (my main transport in London is an old bike from my time in Holland, as it sits happily in the rain when Im away from London) and I've done many cycling holidays. I ride an ebike or a scooter when in Greece, the best way to see, smell and hear that magnificent scenery. I love any activity on or in the sea, and yoga and meditation are part of my daily routine. I read a lot and am constantly learning, and Im absolutely determined to get my greek fluent by next summer.
As an architect I have a taste for simple beauty and good quality. I've taken some risks to set up this dream lifestyle of living between Greece and London (with a winter escape to Cape Town) and now I plan to relax and enjoy it, but equally I'm absolutely open to the flow of life, and adopting other lifestyle choices my partner may prefer. It's all about balance, about give and take, growing and discovering. I hope you're out there!
About her ideal match
For me, what's inside is the important bit. I'd love to find someone who cares for their mind, body and soul. A gentleman who is grounded, gently protective, strong and kind.
The man I seek is comfortable in his masculinity, as I am in my femininity, allowing us to thrive as individuals as well as an integrated couple. You've dug around a bit inside and have a good level of self-knowledge, and are open to a deep level of intimate connection.
Your flexible lifestyle would allow you to travel freely, or you'd be secure enough for us to spend time apart. Ideally you'd be tactile and loving, have a positive mindset and and embrace nature, family and friends, the ocean, adventure, learning, exercise and healthy good food. If you're witty and fun that would be fabulous! A man who is as comfortable in a social environment as he is sitting quietly, reading or just being his own special self.
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About her
Country of origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Atlantic Seaboard (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
163cm (5' 4.2") | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Consultancy / Design | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Greek | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Europe; United States; South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
46 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") - 196cm (6' 5.2") | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Financial services; Retired; Self-employed; Consultancy / Design; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Dutch; French; Greek | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Hair style: |
Long; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Latin |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Mountain biking; Sailing; Snorkeling; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Country Loving: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
